DAAI DING' AN EXPLORATION OF SEX, SEXUAL VIOLENCE & COERCION IN MEN'S PRISONS

SASHA GEAR AND KINDIZA NGUBENI: CENTRE FOR THE STUDY OF VIOLENCE AND RECONCILIATION (CSVR), 2002


SUMMARY
OF FINDINGS

Three main relationship types in which sex takes place in prison are reported.


REFER
TO TABLE (page 2) FOR NORMS OF THESE RELATIONSHIPS

Marriages

The apparently most common site of sex in prison, these relationships are power-defined and involve two

kinds of participants: husbands and wives.


There are very specific rules in terms of how participants relate to each other. Husbands own and control

their wives, and must provide materially for them. Wives must be available to their husbands for sex.

Husbands are associated with power and status while their wives tend to be drawn from the vulnerables of inmate culture and are considered inferior.


Vulnerability to Rape & Sexual Subordination

A range of (sometimes complex) strategies and factors are used to turn some prisoners into wives or

women. These strategies are supported by the context of boredom, frustration, and the inequitable

distribution of resources.

The creation of dependency of the person to be used for sex on the person who will perpetrate the violation

(or on behalf of this person) is the common form of subordination strategies. Dependency is regularly

achieved by the creation of fear or material neediness in the target.


Factors that can protect prisoners from unwanted sex include:

· 'Crime' status (violence)

· Access to other networks of power.

· Aggression and mistrust of others


Table: Defining features of three key relationship-types in which sex takes place

Type of relationship

Role players

Norms operating between participants

 

Sex norms

Men/ husbands penetrate

Marriage

  • Entrenched and endorsed by prison gangs and prison culture
  • May involve gang -members or non-gang members or both
  • Usually brought about by coerced sex-act perpetrated by husband against wife

Husbands

identified as men often the older partner


Wives

identified as women often the younger partner

Husbands = superior partners:

· Own and control their wives

· Must provide for wives (food, drugs and other goods)

  • Involved in the 'business' of prison (smuggling, procuring goods)

Wives = inferior partners

· Must defer to their men

· Must maintain the home space and serve their men

· Must service their men's sexual desires

 

Women / wives are penetrated

'Uchincha ipondo'

  • Outlawed by gangs
  • May involve gang members or non-gang members or both
  • Consensual
  • Protagonists do not occupy distinct roles They tend to hold similar positions in broader inmate culture
  • If in gang are of similar gang rankings
  • may both be

wives of other

prisoners

  • Of similar ages
  • Neither partner is considered superior or inferior
  • Relationship/interaction defined in terms of equal sexual exchange
  • Both parties provide sex to the other

 

Partners take turns to penetrate and receive

 

Other consensual relationships (least information)

  • Consensual

Often understood to involve people

Protagonists do not

occupy distinct roles

Relationship defined by 'love'-feelings that partners have for each other

Actual sex not discussed


Gangs,
sexual violence and coercion

The practice of prison marriages is institutionalised in structures of the Numbers gangs.


All the Numbers gangs have members who are in sexual marriage relationships even when the stated codes of the gang expressly forbid it. However, not all gang-members endorse these practices, neither is it only members of gangs who are involved in coercive sex activities.

Meanings of 'Man' and 'Woman'

Much of the sex that takes place in prison happens along gendered lines. Depending on a person's role in the sex act, participants are identified in prison culture as men or women. In marriages' example, husbands are made up of men and wives of women. The ways in which these gendered identities are understood within inmate culture fundamentally impact on prisoner experiences.


Generally, anyone who has been sexually penetrated in a power-defined interaction is considered a woman. Women are considered inferior and not true' criminals and are repeatedly humiliated by fellow prisoners. It is their job' to provide men with sex. Most women are ashamed of this status, try to hide it and are usually living with the trauma of having been sexually violated. Once defined as a woman, it is very difficult to get rid

of this identity.


Conversely it is a symbol of masculine status to have a wife or woman, and even to have raped another prisoner. Men boast about their sexual relationships/interactions with women.


Promotion
to 'Manhood'

The criteria for promotion to 'manhood' tend to be ruled upon by the gang structures. Being promoted to man status typically involves violence against others (non-gang-members or warders) as well as the 'courage' to withstand the punishment by officials that may follow the violence.


The majority of wyfies do not get promoted because they are frightened and because if they were to commit the necessary violence, they would probably extend their prison sentences.


A well as demanding violence from those seeking promotion, revenge violence is evident in the cyclical nature of sexual abuse reported. Some of the "worst' (most abusive) men are those who had previously been made into wives themselves, say respondents.


Alternative
Modes of Sex: Consensual: REFER TO TABLE (page 2)

In addition to marriages, another common site of sex is an interaction known as uchincha ipondo. Uchincha ipondo is very different to marriage style sex because it is defined by consent (rather than power of one party over another) and is considered deviant within dominant inmate culture. It ignores sex rules associated with marriage and is sometimes understood to constitute 'homosexuality' (as opposed to heterosexual roles of marriage).


Other consensual sex-relationships that are defined by the love' feeling that participants have for each other and that do not fit into either of the broad categories (uchincha ipondo or marriage-style) are also reported.


'Homosexuality'
and 'Gayness'


Types of Sexual Activity

Respondents talk about two types of sex: anal sex and thigh sex. It is unclear whether one type is more prevalent than the other.


Sex is often considered diseased by respondents although they speak notably little about HIV/AIDS. Similarly there is little talk about HIV/AIDS amongst prisoners, they say.

Most prisoners having sex do not use condoms. The reasons provided for this include:


Prison
Warders

Sex, sexual violence and coercion In prison impact on warder behaviour and vice versa.

While some warders offer protective cautions to prisoners, others are directly involved in sexual abuses.


Reporting
of Sexual Violations

Although complaints of rape and sexual abuse that are lodged are reportedly rarely given official attention, a number of factors militate against reporting in the first place:


On
Release

What are the reintegration consequences of coercive and violent sexual experiences in prison?


In general, amongst victims, perpetrators and witnesses, destructive notions of what it means to be a man are further entrenched in prison. It is likely that many exposed to this context will continue to act out identities which involve the subjugation, ownership and abuse of others. Prison may provide young prisoners with some of their most decisive views on sexuality and gender issues - ones on which they will base their future relationships.